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proverbs 18

Posted on March 18, 2010
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Proverbs 18

1 An unfriendly man pursues selfish ends;
he defies all sound judgment.

2 A fool finds no pleasure in understanding
but delights in airing his own opinions.

3 When wickedness comes, so does contempt,
and with shame comes disgrace.

4 The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters,
but the fountain of wisdom is a bubbling brook.

5 It is not good to be partial to the wicked
or to deprive the innocent of justice.

6 A fool’s lips bring him strife,
and his mouth invites a beating.

7 A fool’s mouth is his undoing,
and his lips are a snare to his soul.

8 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels;
they go down to a man’s inmost parts.

9 One who is slack in his work
is brother to one who destroys.

10 The name of the LORD is a strong tower;
the righteous run to it and are safe.

11 The wealth of the rich is their fortified city;
they imagine it an unscalable wall.

12 Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud,
but humility comes before honor.

13 He who answers before listening—
that is his folly and his shame.

14 A man’s spirit sustains him in sickness,
but a crushed spirit who can bear?

15 The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge;
the ears of the wise seek it out.

16 A gift opens the way for the giver
and ushers him into the presence of the great.

17 The first to present his case seems right,
till another comes forward and questions him.

18 Casting the lot settles disputes
and keeps strong opponents apart.

19 An offended brother is more unyielding than a fortified city,
and disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel.

20 From the fruit of his mouth a man’s stomach is filled;
with the harvest from his lips he is satisfied.

21 The tongue has the power of life and death,
and those who love it will eat its fruit.

22 He who finds a wife finds what is good
and receives favor from the LORD.

23 A poor man pleads for mercy,
but a rich man answers harshly.

24 A man of many companions may come to ruin,
but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

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Are you afraid of your wife?

Posted on February 12, 2010
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A boss purposefully scolded his wife in front of a new employee. After the wife take her leave, feeling satisfied, He turns to the new employee, and asked,

“Tell me sir, are you afraid of your wife?”, asked the boss smiling.

“Let me say this correctly..”, The new employee sighed and said, “Yes, I am afraid of my wife.”

The boss smiles even wider, and the new employee continues,

Yes I do have fear of my wife, as we are both grown up, she can leave me anytime, so do I,
and honestly, I’ve never even imagine my life without her.
I’m a Christian, and as I have fear of my God, I also have fear of my wife, and out of  it comes respect!
I respect her and I believe that she also respect me.
But, greater than this, we have love. we accept each other, and will forgive each other foolishness, and we long to be someone who can always support and grow together.

are you afraid of your wife?

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the story of Charlie Boswell

Posted on January 31, 2010
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Charlie Boswell has inspire thousands of man to refuse to give up on their situation, and to get up and give the world the best out of their situation. Charlie became blind on World War II when he tries to save his friend from a burned tank. Charlie was a great athlete before the incident, but after he loses his sight, he decided to try a new kind of sport, a sport that he never plays even when he still has his sight – Golf!

Through his strong will and his love to Golf, he keeps on practicing until he became National Golf Champion for blind people, and He won the awards 13 times!

One of his idols is a well known Golf player, Ben Hogan. So it’s really an honor for Charlie to win Ben Hogan Award in 1958. When he met Ben Hogan, Charlie told him that he is a big fan, and says that one of his wishes is to Golf just 1 round with the spectacular Ben Hogan. Mr Hogan agrees that to play Golf with him will also be an honor, obviously Charlie’s name has grown, and that Mr Hogan has heard about Charlie’s achievement and admire his skills.

Would you play with some money, Mr Hogan?“, Charlie said.

I can’t play for money, it’s not fair!“, answers Hogan.

Oh come on Mr. Hogan – only $1000 per hole.

I can’t. What would they say about me later, to have used you and your situation.“, answers Hogan.

So, you didn’t dare, Mr. Hogan?

OK!” says Hogan desperately, “but I definitely will show you my best performance!

I wouldn’t expect less.” says Boswell in confidence.

OK, please, Mr. Boswell. Show me when and where!

With full confidence, Boswell answers, “10 pm, tonight!

knows your strength and explore it!

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please remind me why

Posted on December 28, 2009
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please remind me why do I need to take this decision?

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